Conflict of Relationship

Conflict of Relationship – Her biological wiring drives her to support and nurture family, and develop her feminine self / but our male dominated society encourages achievement, status climbing and developing her career, just in case she doesn’t find a man to provide for her. This is why you’ll see very successful women quitting their jobs or taking an extended leave when they have kids.

For example, recently Nicole Kidman took a break from Hollywood to focus on raising her children. You won’t see a man really taking a break from work to focus on his family – if anything he’ll work even harder when he has more mouths to feed. Now, because of the intensities of these 3 conflicts, she is forced to develop coping strategies to manage them. There are two very distinct coping strategies a woman can choose for each conflict.

The strategy she chooses becomes habitual, and it manifests drastic differences in behavior between women. Now, all women have the same conflicts, so that doesn’t really make them unique. The difference is how women chose to deal with these strategies that are different. What we’ve found is that for each conflict a woman has two different choices of how she can deal with it. The strategy a woman chooses to manage these conflicts is what defines her character type.

All you have to do to fully understand what is going on inside her mindand figure out her predominant strategy for each one of these conflicts. And really – in the past 5 minutes you have just learned more about the female mind than a regular PhD in psychology.

Let’s say a company needs a new CEO, and they only have three months to get him. They really only have two different options. First, they can hire several guys, watch them all work on a trial basis, and at the end three months, pick the best one. Or, they can just pick the first guy they find who has the potential to be good enough, and train him to become a good CEO by the end of the three months. Neither one is a perfect strategy, but given the time constraint, both are viable options, with their own advantages and disadvantages. With women – she will either put a few guys on trial, to test them, and let them compete it out to see whose best in the long term. Or, will make a quicker decision, pick one of the first guys she thinks has potential and invest all of her time and energy to make him into the perfect boyfriend.