Mistake no.1: Are you too nice to women?

Have you noticed that beautiful and attractive women are never interested in too nice, and compliant men?

I’m sure you have, and more than once. I notice the phenomenon on a daily basis. I am positive that you have seen or know at least a few of beautiful and attractive women with guys, and they have never shown any more interest than being friends with you or not even that. I am sure you want to know where is the problem? It is a very simple fact. Women’s decisions are not based on a fact how nice a man is to them, their decision is based on the strong attraction they feel for him.

Like it or not, you will have many failed relationships before you find the right one. It’s impossible for anyone to learn how to be in a successful relationship without having experienced several of them. For the sake of discussion, we’re going to refer to losing control of notes your mind as “losing your mind” in this chapter. When you lose your mind, you have to find your body. You can use your body to regain control over your mind by putting your body in a position that will trigger a thought process that will link an emotion to the way your body is moving. The simplest example of this is that if you force yourself to smile, you’ll actually start to feel happier.

Don’t celebrate a break up. Don’t throw a party. Don’t put yourself back on the dating scene immediately. It’s not healthy, and forcing yourself to be social will not make you feel good. A break up isn’t a cause for celebration; it’s a time for reflecting on your successes and failures and for thinking about your next move in light of the new lessons you’ve learned. Obsessing over finding a rebound girl is massively detrimental to this process.